Sex is a beautiful thing, but sometimes can be painful or messy
if you dont know what your doing. Its okay to be a little clumsy but
there are always ways to spice up your sex life. Sometimes we lose our
sense of adventure, ecspecially when we are in a relationship. Although I
am no professional, I can tell you one thing, my sex life is on fire,
and I want to share all the dirty little secrets with you ;)
1. Know your body
I can not express how important this is. As a woman, it isnt as easy for us to be pleased as it is for men, and there are a lot of "ins and outs" of our private areas. You absaloutely have to know where everything is located, and how it all works. Your clitoris is one of the main pleasure spots of a woman's vagina. This amazing little nerve clump allows you to experience an orgasm 10x that of which a man does. Unfortunately, men dont always know about this, or where its located, so its crutial that you do.
2. Tell him what you like
Sometimes men can be a little selfish in the bedroom, and we dont always get off. They can be too rough (or not rough enough) so you have to tell them what you like and where you like it. This is more important when you are in a relationship. No one wants to have a dull sex life, and it isnt fair for one person to get theirs and the other cant. Men do not know the female vagina, they dont study it, and they have no clue what the clit is or where it is. All men know is that there is a hole, that feels good. Dont be shy to tell him what you like and how you like it. Guide your man to enhance your sex life, and youd be suprised how much better your sex life will be. And also, make him feel good about himself and tell him not to be afraid to let you know what HE wants. a relationship is two ways, so communication is #1 !
3. Try New Things
Be adventurous in your sex life! its always good to try something new, and to mix it up a bit. Sex toys are an amazing way to do this. You dont necessarily have to make a huge change. You can maybe try a tingling or warming lubricant, or maybe you are brave and want to try to put a vibrator in the mix or a penis ring. Youd be suprised how many ways you can use a vibrator on both yourself and him. You can take baby steps and work your way up, maybe try on a sexy outfit or some leingere, or role play. There are a lot of websites that have great sex games for partners and sell leingere if you dont feel comfortable buying them in the store. A great company for sex toys is a called "bedroom Kandy".
4. Be a different you
This is a very broad subject. When I say be a different you I dont mean wear a wig and go by a different name. I simply mean, express a side of yourself that you normally dont, for example, being romantic, or sensuous. You can be naughty, or be dominant. Be sexy, no matter how you normally feel about yourself. If you really want to be able to be more comfortable, you can turn off the lights, its a lot easier when your partner cant see you, they can only hear and feel you.
5. Dont be selfish
Part of being a sexy woman, is pleasing your man. Do some research and figure out ways to enhance your sex skills. How to give a better blow job or different positions that put you in charge. Lather your partner is sensuality, and make him know that you want him. Men love to be wanted by women. Make him feel masculine and strong, almost like you need him, and trust me, he will be one happy man!
hope this helps some of you ladies, as I know a lot of my girlfriends struggle with their sex lives. good luck!
1. Know your body
I can not express how important this is. As a woman, it isnt as easy for us to be pleased as it is for men, and there are a lot of "ins and outs" of our private areas. You absaloutely have to know where everything is located, and how it all works. Your clitoris is one of the main pleasure spots of a woman's vagina. This amazing little nerve clump allows you to experience an orgasm 10x that of which a man does. Unfortunately, men dont always know about this, or where its located, so its crutial that you do.
2. Tell him what you like
Sometimes men can be a little selfish in the bedroom, and we dont always get off. They can be too rough (or not rough enough) so you have to tell them what you like and where you like it. This is more important when you are in a relationship. No one wants to have a dull sex life, and it isnt fair for one person to get theirs and the other cant. Men do not know the female vagina, they dont study it, and they have no clue what the clit is or where it is. All men know is that there is a hole, that feels good. Dont be shy to tell him what you like and how you like it. Guide your man to enhance your sex life, and youd be suprised how much better your sex life will be. And also, make him feel good about himself and tell him not to be afraid to let you know what HE wants. a relationship is two ways, so communication is #1 !
3. Try New Things
Be adventurous in your sex life! its always good to try something new, and to mix it up a bit. Sex toys are an amazing way to do this. You dont necessarily have to make a huge change. You can maybe try a tingling or warming lubricant, or maybe you are brave and want to try to put a vibrator in the mix or a penis ring. Youd be suprised how many ways you can use a vibrator on both yourself and him. You can take baby steps and work your way up, maybe try on a sexy outfit or some leingere, or role play. There are a lot of websites that have great sex games for partners and sell leingere if you dont feel comfortable buying them in the store. A great company for sex toys is a called "bedroom Kandy".
4. Be a different you
This is a very broad subject. When I say be a different you I dont mean wear a wig and go by a different name. I simply mean, express a side of yourself that you normally dont, for example, being romantic, or sensuous. You can be naughty, or be dominant. Be sexy, no matter how you normally feel about yourself. If you really want to be able to be more comfortable, you can turn off the lights, its a lot easier when your partner cant see you, they can only hear and feel you.
5. Dont be selfish
Part of being a sexy woman, is pleasing your man. Do some research and figure out ways to enhance your sex skills. How to give a better blow job or different positions that put you in charge. Lather your partner is sensuality, and make him know that you want him. Men love to be wanted by women. Make him feel masculine and strong, almost like you need him, and trust me, he will be one happy man!
hope this helps some of you ladies, as I know a lot of my girlfriends struggle with their sex lives. good luck!
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